Perempuan itu ketika bekerja dan sudah berkeluarga, terlebih ketika mempunyai anak, akan selalu ditanya, "Bagaimana bagi waktunya antara keluarga dan pekerjaan?" Laki-laki apakah dihadapkan pada pertanyaan yang sama? Oh, tentu tidak. Padahal laki-laki juga banyak yang berkeluarga dan mempunyai anak. Mengapa mereka tidak ditanyakan pertanyaan yang sama? Tanggung jawab mengurus anak dan keluarga terkesan menjadi tanggung jawab tunggal seorang perempuan. Sedangkan laki-laki cukup sampai urusan nafkah keluarga saja, sisanya menjadi urusan perempuan. Benarkah demikian? Mengapa yang terjadi masyarakat kita adalah pandangan yang seperti ini dan diamini oleh seluruh pihak. Perempuan bicara rasa lelah mengurus anak dan rumah itu, terlebih sambil bekerja dianggap biasa. Sudah seharusnya demikian. Ulala, capeknya. Jeritan hati para perempuan tidak didengar, hanya karena dianggap ya memang sudah seharusnya, perempuan urus anak dan rumah. Capek gak sih jadi "kuat". ...
It was a very unforgetable moment of my life when delivering my baby into the world. I've never expected that it would feel this way. Having my baby in my tummy for 9 months then holding my baby in my arm, were totally a different experience.
During the pregnancy, I felt something growing in my tummy. It was not something, it was a living thing. It was a baby. A baby from the size of peanut then grew bigger until 50cm and 3kg. From the time the mommy didn't realize that the baby was there until the baby got bigger and always kick the tummy's mommy from the inside. And then, the time for the baby to see the world finally came.
There was so many myth during pregnancy (mitos tentang ibu hamil), but I don't care at all. I just paid attention to my health (physically and mentally). Also the food had been eaten by me during my pregnancy. I didn't eat sushi at all, eventhough I like to eat sushi very much.
My first pregnancy became a moment that me and my husband had been waiting for. I had been tired for almost every month I had checked the testpack in the beggining of the morning just to find out the testpack gave one line only (negative). My husband and I felt so blessed.
When the time had come to deliver my baby into the world, I feel very nervous. But my mother calm me down. It was 4 o'clock in the afternoon when my amniotic fluid just fell down just like I peed which I can't control to stop. My mother asked me not too freak out, just relax and take a bath first. Then my mother drove me to the hospital.
My husband from the office then went to hospital right away. His first experience has come to see his beloved baby enter the world (pengalaman istri pertama melahirkan). I saw through his eyes, he just as nervous as me.
Alhamdulillah, finally our beautiful baby girl has born. There's nothing in this world can described our happiness.
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