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Memaafkan atau Waktu yang akan Menyembuhkan Luka?

Itulah pertanyaanku ke narasumber ketika mengikuti Workshop Forgiveness Therapy yang diadakan oleh Dandiah Care, dengan foundernya adalah pasangan suami istri dari Ibu Diah Mahmudah, S.Psi., Psikolog dan Pak Dandi Birdy, S.Psi. Workshop Forgiveness Therapy ini dibawakan oleh 5 orang narasumber, yang tidak hanya menjelaskan konsep dan teori tentang ilmu memaafkan ini namun juga membersamai dengan praktek secara langsung, langkah-langkah kecil yang dilakukan untuk bisa sampai pada keputusan memaafkan. Apakah benar waktu akan menyembuhkan luka? Berapa lama waktu yang dibutuhkan idealnya untuk menyembuhkan suatu luka? Selama ini kalimat " Time will heal." itu seakan jawaban. Namun ternyata kalimat itu belum lengkap, "Time will heal or kill."  Memaafkanlah yang akan menyembuhkan luka. Tidak ada hubungannya dengan waktu. Dibutuhkan keputusan sadar untuk memaafkan.  " Forgiveness is a choice", dalam bukunya   Robert D. Enright mengatakan ada 4 tahapan...

Studying during Corona Pandemic

Corona virus had became a pandemic from the early of 2020 all over the world. It started from China then spread to every country. Some country had managed it well but many country are still struggling. This pandemic gave a huge impact to our education system ( kebijakan pendidikan ). Some people believe that study must proceed during the pandemic (using online study system) but some people think, it would be better to postphone the new school academic year until the pandemic is under controlled.  In my opinion, it would be better if the government postphone the new school academic year rather than insist to open the new school academic year. There are some disadvantages if the new school academic year will be opened during the pandemic. The life of the children will be on risk if the schools open and do the offline learning system. Eventhough, if the learning system will be using online platform, it will not give the same quality compare to offline learning system. Face to fac...

Facing the New Normal during Covid-19 Outbreak

New normal is becoming a new trend now. Many people have to change their habitual ( perubahan perilaku ) during corona outbreak. Not only have to change our habit but we also have to find another source of income ( sumber keuangan kedua ) during this pandemic especially when we lost our primary resource of income. This new normal era is not easy for the society. Having to adapt quickly is the key.  I agree that we have to prepare ourself to face the new normal life. Many things should be adapt especially our hygiene and our flow of money. Nothing would not be the same for the world before and after the corona outbreak.  We should have a strong mind that we have to keep our hygiene in a very high standart more than ever. Washing your hand not only if we want to eat just like old times, but we should wash our hand before and after touch anything that might have been touched by other people. Having a physical distance in public is a must. Not only wear mask when having activity o...