Itulah pertanyaanku ke narasumber ketika mengikuti Workshop Forgiveness Therapy yang diadakan oleh Dandiah Care, dengan foundernya adalah pasangan suami istri dari Ibu Diah Mahmudah, S.Psi., Psikolog dan Pak Dandi Birdy, S.Psi. Workshop Forgiveness Therapy ini dibawakan oleh 5 orang narasumber, yang tidak hanya menjelaskan konsep dan teori tentang ilmu memaafkan ini namun juga membersamai dengan praktek secara langsung, langkah-langkah kecil yang dilakukan untuk bisa sampai pada keputusan memaafkan. Apakah benar waktu akan menyembuhkan luka? Berapa lama waktu yang dibutuhkan idealnya untuk menyembuhkan suatu luka? Selama ini kalimat " Time will heal." itu seakan jawaban. Namun ternyata kalimat itu belum lengkap, "Time will heal or kill." Memaafkanlah yang akan menyembuhkan luka. Tidak ada hubungannya dengan waktu. Dibutuhkan keputusan sadar untuk memaafkan. " Forgiveness is a choice", dalam bukunya Robert D. Enright mengatakan ada 4 tahapan...
When you were young, you can be an idealist person. By the time goes by, it will fade away. I believe that when you grow older, life would became more complicated and force you to accept that you live in the grey area. Life is not a white and black area eventhough when you were child, you were thought the good and bad deed. But in the reality, to decide is it really bad or is it really the good deed, not that simple. Everyone have their own reason and background when do something. I really miss my childhood. Children really have a pure soul. Perhaps until you live on your own and meet a lot of other different kind of people, you still can be an idealist person and can still view this life as a white and black area. Is that so difficult to make life as white and black area? Why society accept the grey area? Why there must be a grey area in the first place? Why we were thought about white and black area and never about grey area while in the reality life is not whi...