In my opinion, there is a slightly different meaning between happy and success. Success doesn't always make you happy. Perhaps it's make you happy, but not for a long time. It just make you happy for temporary. Why? Because there will be another goal to pursue, when it can't be achieved, you are happy anymore. Success is a condition when you achieved your goal. But happy is a condition when you choose to be. You can still be happy when you are not succeed. See, the different? There is 3 stages of happy life. First pleasant life, secondly good life and the last one is meaningful life.
So do you want to be succeed or happy? Do you want your beloved one to be succeed or happy? How about both of them. Can we get them both? Yes, of course, but we have to give the lesson learned to our child to make them both succeed and happy. But first of all, hopefully the parent should had already succeed and happy.
The important lesson we should encouraged or children to master is Life Intellegence. It consisted of Intellectual Quotient (IQ), Emotional Intellegence (EQ), Spiritual Intellegence (SQ), Adversity Intellegence (AI). Let's see how we work as a family sharpened our 4 aspect intellegence above.
Day 1 : Playing Lego
IQ : Part of IQ is Spatial Intellegence, my son make a robot from lego. It visualized his picture in mind about robot and make it real by construct the lego, put it together to become robot.
EQ: Part of EQ is Social Intellegence, my son played lego with my daughter. They both share the pieces of lego, and try not to fight over each other.
SQ: When he played lego, he knew that he created the robot from pieces. Robot is his creation. Then I asked, can you create a cat just like our kitty there from lego? By using this example, I give him an explanation about our creators. There is something human can not create about.
AI : Climbers is the goal of AI. Sometimes his robot turned into pieces because of her sister ruin it or simply he just can't arranged it well. I will encouraged him to try again and again until the robot finally be there.
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